Sorry ...
Sometimes we say some words that we dont really mean or wanna say ..but it just comes out of your mouth at the spur of the moment ...
it may take more than a just words to undo the pain or hurt caused by those unintentional words which hurts the person ...but have u ever wondered that it can sometimes spoil ur friendship with that person forever... on the other hand there are a lot of people with lion hearts... that even though u really have meant those words and later u regret doing it , they do accept ur apology ...
well that' s the secret ...of being happy... i guess...!
FORGIVE & FORGET ...!
Would you like to share your experiences ...?
did u ever hurt ur friend ...or did u feel hurt by some 1 close ?
what did u do get the things back on track ...
share ur thoughts ...if they arent too personal ...!
posted by ~*~ kiran ~*~ at 2:32 PM
18 Comments:
I'll need an entire blog for that.
ur post reminds me of a song...
Woh Bhuli dastaan...
lo fir yaad aa gayi ;-)
lolzzz
Will come back
Cheers
southpaw...
u can take as much space as u want to ...but lemme know what think about this ....
bhayu ...
which bhuli dastaan ...?
kya yaad aya ....?
tell me ...
Kiran where the hell have u been? I was thinking u stopped blogging hehehe...anyways nice post sweety!
**that even though u really have meant those words and later u regret doing it , they do accept ur apology ...
yes some accept it...and some don't. I get angry quite quickly lol but I forgive...but I have my standards too...what I mean is I cant forgive that easily if it was a very grave misdeed on me...small matters can be easily forgiven but not major ones that affect me.
I have had 2 friends hurting me real bad b4...at the beginning I didnt forgive em...but later one of em came and asked for forgiveness...I thought that was brave and quite genuine..so I forgave him...it was hard to forget but now Im getting there...to total forgetting and being happy with him..but u must admit that sometimes it will never be the same again..cos memory interrupts.
Keshi.
hi keshu ...
kiran quits blogging ....
lolzzz....
i wont go away without making a noise....
on that eventfull day ...people with shed their tears et all...
lolzzzzz...
just kidding ....
no no no ... im not quitting bloggersville so sooon,...untill i get completely bored of it ...
its just becoz of work ..i ve been trying to keep myself away from blogs.....coz i have to catch up on lot of pending issues....
i did read about ur friends who had hurt u ..or something on those lines on ur blog in teh last month ... its kind of irritating to be with such people ..but if u n that friend truly have that rapport then may be u can get back those positives woven together again... dont u think so ?but kesh ... i guess time heals all wounds but the scars remain forever...!!!
Forgive and forget..dat's my philosophy too...
btw tnx for adding moi blog to yours...i'm honored...
First, it was really sad to hear about this....
Hope you both have patched up by now...
FORGIVE & FORGET .
I cant do this...even if its my mistake and the other preson is ready to forgive and forget, its very embarrasing for me to forget things...I feel kind-of emabarrased.
Yup...I just lost a very close friend coz of ma stupidity...and that scar will always remain in ma heart...
Sometimes we say some words that we dont really mean or wanna say ..but it just comes out of your mouth at the spur of the moment ...
very true......same is the problem with me :( thats y i always prefer to speak less..
did u ever hurt ur friend ...or did u feel hurt by some 1 close ?..
yes m experiencing this feeling since past few months :(
Would you like to share your experiences ...?what did u do get the things back on track ...
will definately share i somday on my blog.....but first let me get things back on track...
sweet post btw ....and thanx foe visiting my blog and adding me on frndlist....
tc :)
hi gangadhar...
so its ur philosophy 2..???
hey gr8 ...i guess that makes u very humble person huh?
im glad u agree with my thoughts...!!
hi gizm000nie...
First, it was really sad to hear about this....
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hey buddy ..nthg hpnd 2 me ...its just a thought that came up in my mind ...bcoz of smthg tht hpnd2 1 of my close frnds...
Hope you both have patched up by now...
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ya i hope "they" have patched up ..!
FORGIVE & FORGET .
I cant do this...even if its my mistake and the other preson is ready to forgive and forget, its very embarrasing for me to forget things...I feel kind-of emabarrased.
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ya thats true .. i can understand that ...but dera dont u think taht holding a grudge against a person wud make u sad n rather give u more heart burn as well...so dont u think u shud just wipe out that person from ur min d...for which u need to forgive the person ..n then forget the person completely ....but then its ur chocice after all...and also it depends on what the reason was fr tht hurt ...
Yup...I just lost a very close friend coz of ma stupidity...and that scar will always remain in ma heart...
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try no marks cream ...
lolzzz....
(sad pj)
on a serious note ... i hope u are able to get out of that feeling asap... n live life without ne regrets ...!!!
okie gizmooonie ...smile now ... say cheese...
*click*...!
thank u ...
keep smiling always ...!!!
hi raj ...
very true......same is the problem with me :( thats y i always prefer to speak less..
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by speaking less...ru trying to hold back your thoughts ...???
coz the only way to communicate ur ideas is thru words...
n unless n untill u speakup ...
how will the other person know whats in ur mind?
yes m experiencing this feeling since past few months :(
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oh thats sad... well i hope things come back to normal in ur life asap dear ...take care...!
will definately share i somday on my blog.....but first let me get things back on track...
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ill surely wait to read about it ...n i wish u good luck always !!!
sweet post btw ....and thanx foe visiting my blog and adding me on frndlist....
ur most welcome ...
have fun ..take care!!!
forgive or forget .....well sometimes i feel like bombing my memory back as it stores every bit of info i dont need so forgetting something is impossible for me .........
it takes real long time ...
but yes i can forgive somebody.....
and i had to sorry a lot of times to when handle just went off the hook ....
but ....nowadays i warn ppl dont talk to me as i may blast u so beware if u do u'll get whatever is coming
Kiran nice thoughts
Ash
ForGive n Forget....Sure i can do this but to be frank i believe in giving 1 chance! If the same thing gets repeated twice then maybe i'd forgive, but then i'll never be able to forget it. I know it's not the best thing to do, but then i guess i'm like tht!(Maybe i'll learn)
Cheers! :)
hi ash ...
wlcm to my blog ...
well sometimes i feel like bombing my memory back as it stores every bit of info i dont need so forgetting something is impossible for me .........
it takes real long time ...
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i can only imagine ..what u wud ve gn thru ....
but yes i can forgive somebody.....
and i had to sorry a lot of times to when handle just went off the hook ....
*****
thats the most toughest part ...to apologise ...even if ure not the at fault ....
but ....nowadays i warn ppl dont talk to me as i may blast u so beware if u do u'll get whatever is coming
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hehehe...play safe huh ??
actually even i try to practice this ...
Kiran nice thoughts
Thanks a lot ASH...!
take care n have fun !!!
rebel on loose....
hi buddy ...
hws u ?
ForGive n Forget....Sure i can do this but to be frank i believe in giving 1 chance!
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thank god for small mercies...!!!!!
lollzzzz
may be that 1chance is the only thing reqd...
If the same thing gets repeated twice then maybe i'd forgive, but then i'll never be able to forget it.
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ya thats so true...
1mistake is a mistake ...
2mistake is taking 1 for granted...
I know it's not the best thing to do, but then i guess i'm like tht!(Maybe i'll learn)
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yes im sure ...we all are learning ...!!!
Cheers! :)
hey cheers to u as well...!!!
** i guess time heals all wounds but the scars remain forever
Spot on!
I can forgive...but it's hard to kill the memory isnt it? Unless I get Dementia or something lol!
Keshi.
i've been hurt.. very deeply..think by now, u knew it already..no, i haven't forgive the person.. just not yet..
and yes, i've hurt others..but u know what? i can't be siting comfortably and pretend like nothing happened if i have ever hurt anyone..till i walk up to the person and apologize..its me..but i know, not everyone has that courage to do so..
hugsss
=am000nie=
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